Tuesday, July 1, 2008

Tribute to an Amazing Woman

Today I would like to pay tribute to an Amazing woman--My Mom! Today is my mother's birthday, and since she isn't here to celebrate with us, I just wanted to reflect on the wonderful person she was.
My mom was remarkable, because she would always think of others before herself. She was always serving someone. She often times went with out so others had something extra. She loved to see the joy it brought to other peoples lives. One example of this was when she was really sick in December and was struggling with pain. I had a hair appointment and I told her where I was going. When she found out I had an appointment, she offered to watch the kids for me (even though I had already found a sitter.)
She was a hard worker. My mom worked extremely hard. She made sure the job got done and she gave a 110%. She could work harder and faster than most people 20 years younger than her.
She was smart, and knew what was important in life. Her love was for the gospel and her family. She epically loved playing with the grand kids! She was the most incredible grandma out there. She was always doing fun projects and outings with the kids. She would find out about neat places to take them or special events happening in town. (I didn't have to ask her to watch them, she would just volunteer) she would come home with special surprises, toys and clothes for them.
She was the best mom to me, she taught me what was right and let us kids do most things. Most of all she was the best friend a daughter could have.
She was a phenomenal cook and baker. She made the most delicious things to eat! She loved trying new recipes and many of them would be "keepers". Some of my best recipes came from my mom.
Mom always liked to find a deal, and she would happen upon some real steals. She found the coolest things and loved turning trash into treasure. She would find neat things everywhere and people would always ask her where she found different things.
Words cannot describe the many ways she was truly incredible. I can't wait to see her again! Since our family tradition has always been going out to dinner for family birthdays, with the birthday person picking the restaurant, we decided to celebrate for mom's birthday upholding the family tradition. We picked Chuck-a-Rama (since my mom liked going there) and we all had a nice dinner as a family. I think she would be pleased that we were all together.
I miss her a lot. She was fantastic and I want to aspire to have all of her great qualities. I am thankful to have had such a wonderful mother and friend!

8 comments:

Jen & Kevin Burrell said...

I'm sorry I never had the chance to meet your mom. She sounds amazing. I feel those same things for my mom. We are lucky to have such wonderful women to look up to.

Jodi said...

Your mom is an amazing person! In the brief time I got to spend with her she made it clear what her loves and what her priorities were. She loves her family very much! She certainty lived life to the fullest and took opportunities to do those things that matter. Liked spending time with her kids & grandkids and making good food. I am grateful to have met her & grateful for the knowledge that you will be a family again. For now...know she lives on in you! Many of those wonderful qualities you loved about her she taught to you and you now teach them to your kids every day. I am glad I have you as an example. You help me to remember to take time for the important things and be a better mom.

Love Ya,
Jodi

Abes and Stace said...

What a great post! I'm sorry I never met her - she sounds awesome. I hope everything is going ok - haven't seen you in a little while.
Love ya.

Marcia said...

Ditto from me for everything you said about your mom! She is amazing,as you said, and the cool thing is that she spent her time developing all the great attributes that we are allowed to take to heaven, so she didn't waste her time and she will be so recognizable when we all get there! I am proud to have known your mother here on earth, and I am proud to know you, her daughter, who already has many of her wonderful qualities!

regibells said...

What a sweat Lady! I love that you have such wonderful memories of her and such a great example to pattern your life after...no wonder you are such an amazing woman yourself...When you told me you went to chuch a rama....I must have missed the part that it was for your Mom's birthday. Sorry I missed that important detail. I am glad you got to celebrate.

Melissa said...

She sounds perfect! maybe that's why it was time. I'm happy you were so close and she was such a great example for you & those around her! :)

Dorey said...

It sounds like your Mom is such an amazing person, that must be where you get it from.=) I'm glad you celebrated on her birthday I'm sure she would have wanted you to. On my Mom's birthday we invite friends and family over to our house and everyone brings a balloon for each member of their family and then we write little "notes" to my Mom (or other loved ones) and tie them on the balloons and then we let them go, last year there were 40 balloons. I would love for you to come this year (August 20th). love ya =)

Tami said...

What a wonderful way to celebrate her birthday! I love that you carry on her life through living yours through her example.